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frSome men claimed, I don’t know their source that women are they only problem of men. Some speak as if that is what Adam told them that just like everything was going on well at the garden until the woman arrived, a man will think straight, see correctly and act wisely until he meets a woman. Others will say take away a woman and a man will sorrow no more and the world will know peace like never before. But have they ever imagine walking into an office and don’t feel that feminine smile that says welcome or listening to a choir without the touch of that high soprano that pokes your soul or walking into a home or family and not feel that motherly care that protects.
A lot have been said and are still being said about women but there is something else about a woman. They are not they weaker sex but the other sex because behind every great and small accomplishment you will see a woman if you look deeply and whenever I looked at a woman I don’t seek weakness, I see strength, uniqueness and composure that makes me wonder how it feels to be a woman.
However a world without a woman will truly be different but I don’t think it will be all that peaceful and sorrow free, I think we will died of boredom because women actually keeps life busy, they keep the sales on, they keep life bubbling with lots of suspends; when she looks at you and you are left wondering what is in her mind and drama; when he spend his savings to impress her. There are just too many reasons the world needs a woman but let me leave this on your mind “ women are the best thing that have ever happen to man” you don’t really need to agree with me.969877b1-827d-3756-b40b-b56f09fa0add

About itycharles

There is so much to tell about me but unfortunately i know just little about myself because everyday i keep discovering who i am and who i am not hence i wake up in the morning ready to be who ever i am.



  1. It is only the men that fear that can’t handle a woman. The weaker sex is all about muscle which is an illusion too. If inclined the female can too.

    Posted by mkesling63 | May 8, 2013, 2:45 am
  2. Nice post, Charles.

    Posted by joseyphina | May 8, 2013, 11:36 pm
  3. Brother, you already know I love your writing, but I want to add one other thing and its found in 1 Peter:
    1Peter 3:7 “Husbands, likewise, dwell with them with understanding, giving honor to the wife, as to the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers may not be hindered.”
    Notice that Peter says as to the weaker vessel, NOT, they ARE the weaker vessel! So many haven’t understood that when the Lord pulled that rib from Adam’s side, Eve was to be a help-mate, someone walking equally with him, because she was a part of him!
    It is so with marriage; so many want to teach on the “subjection” of women without going the extra verse and seeing what verse 7 has to offer. Also, in conjunction with 1 Peter, let’s not forget that the Apostle Paul doesn’t contradict Peter but rather states, “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her—” Ephesians 5:25.
    Oh, how so many male preachers (notice I say preachers, not teachers) forget those “other” verses that have to finish the reason the Lord made woman to begin with! Charles, I have been married for 41 plus years and I will tell you this, as a person, as a minister (servant) I would be absolutely NOTHING without my wife! And according to the Scriptures written by Peter, my prayers would be hindered if not for her!
    There certainly is a reason why our Heavenly Father, out of His unfathomable love gave us the greatest treasure this earth could ever know (besides our redemption) and that reason was so that man could be complete, whole, and one with his spouse!
    You want to really know who the weaker is (and think seriously about this one); could it just possibly be man himself due to the fact that Adam lost a rib, something that is meant to protect his heart, and our Heavenly Father in all His wisdom, gave Adam, Eve to do the job the rib was supposed to do? Eve didn’t have one less rib, she was made complete! It pays to meditate on His Holy Word; it’s amazing what the Holy Spirit shows us, when we choose to listen!
    Love you brother and more so the more I read what you have to offer. You bare your heart and that is a rare and wonderful thing in any person!
    God bless you as always so abundantly and richly! 🙂

    Posted by Pastor Roland Ledoux | May 18, 2013, 9:31 am
    • Thank you pastor but “I have been married for 41 plus years and I will tell you this, as a person, as a minister (servant) I would be absolutely NOTHING without my wife!” is very touchy and strong. i wish every husband can make the same statement with a sincere heart

      Posted by itycharles | May 18, 2013, 10:38 pm

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