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looking for Mr RightAt first, I couldn’t stop laughing at this woman, but it was a different story there after because all through that night the image of this woman was still on my mind not as if I had a nightmare but I kept asking myself questions I never really expected answers. Where is this perfect man? Must she wait for this perfect man? How long has she waited for Mr perfect? Will Mr perfect show up? Is there any Mr perfect? There is absolutely nothing wrong about waiting so she did the right thing but what you are waiting for and why you are waiting can make you wait in vain.
What we see above is a picture of a woman, after having waited for so long is still waiting for the perfect man to come ask her hand in marriage, but what I saw that night was a long and endless bench with so many of us seated not waiting for the perfect man but waiting for something perfect.
A lot of us should have gone far in life but we were or are still waiting for that perfect idea or perfect money to start that business, some are waiting for that perfect moment or time to make a move or propose, others are waiting for a perfect day, when they are at their best or when everything is just in its place before taking that step. In conclusion, there is no perfect man, no perfect woman, no perfect business, no perfect idea, no perfect move, no perfect moment and no perfect step. So wait no more, now is the perfect moment, take that step, make that move, start that business, work on that idea now, and worry about perfection latter. Don’t be like the woman in the image who will still be waiting for the perfect man, so that you can avoid the inevitable Maurice chevalier (1888-1972). Spoke about when he said “if you wait for the perfect moment when all is safe and assured, it may never arrive, mountains will not be climbed, races won or lasting happiness achieved.

About itycharles

There is so much to tell about me but unfortunately i know just little about myself because everyday i keep discovering who i am and who i am not hence i wake up in the morning ready to be who ever i am.



  1. The perfect man is made everyday. They don’t just stay that way nor does the perfect women. I have meet and been with what I feel is the perfect to begin with and work to stay perfect for him and him perfect for me. With every new change, experence perfect changes too.

    Posted by mkesling63 | April 18, 2013, 10:16 pm
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    Posted by tazeinmirzasaad | April 19, 2013, 5:58 am
  3. God is,and guess what?…HE sees us the same way…perfect forever!

    Posted by Chukwuebuka | April 20, 2013, 6:26 pm
  4. I can wait. There’s still time.+_+”

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    Posted by renxkyoko | May 7, 2013, 8:22 am
  5. I’m not kidding before I even read this, when I saw the title I thought the same thing….
    “You will die waiting but the same goes for the perfect woman.”

    Posted by Author_4_U | May 8, 2013, 11:32 pm
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    Posted by joseyphina | May 8, 2013, 11:34 pm
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    Posted by billyraychitwood1 | May 26, 2013, 4:23 pm
  8. It is much better to be alone than be with the wrong person. My husband is far from perfect but as he says ‘we may not have it all together, but together we have it all.’ 🙂

    Posted by perthians | July 26, 2013, 3:01 am
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